Living Library
A living library for survivors, clinicians, poets & friends.
Fiction and poetry can hold what clinical language cannot. These books put experience at the centre — honest, messy, and often brilliant. The list is always expanding; reach out any time for requests.
Memoirs & lived experience
Mental health, madness, neurodiversity — experience at the centre.
A clinical scholar writing with the intimacy of lived experience about bipolar disorder; a cornerstone memoir.
Two linked works tracing psychiatric practice and its harms; essential for structural questions about medication, institutions and power.
Essays that render diagnosis, stigma and the fragility of medical narratives with lyric intelligence.
- The Bell Jar — Sylvia Plath
A literary classic about depression and a life under pressure — to feel less alone, not to diagnose.
- Freshwater — Akwaeke Emezi
Fiction exploring multiplicity, spirit possession and identity, and the porous borders between trauma and myth.
- Being Seen — Elsa Sjunneson
A powerful essay collection foregrounding disability, survival and narrative authority.
Borderline, bipolar & depression
Intimate and practical — what diagnosis feels like, and how people survive.
- The Buddha and the Borderline — Kiera Van Gelder
A memoir that also offers practical DBT insights through story.
- Madness: A Bipolar Life — Marya Hornbacher
Unflinching, lyrical, and corrective to shame.
- Darkness Visible · Reasons to Stay Alive · The Noonday Demon — Styron, Haig, Solomon
Three different but compassionate paths into understanding depressive illness.
Neurodiversity & disability justice
Work that centres access, dignity and alternatives to pathologising frameworks.
A humane, practical book about masking and being allowed to be oneself.
A radical, poetic collection placing care and accessibility at the centre of liberation politics.
- Decolonizing Trauma Work — Renee Linklater
Indigenous-grounded trauma work that reframes healing as community and ceremony.
- Loud Hands — Julia Bascom (ed.)
Autistic voices speaking back: manifesto, essays, and reflection from inside the community.
Clinical, trauma & practice
For therapists & students — theory, technique and humane practice.
- Narrative Means to Therapeutic Ends / Maps of Narrative Practice — White & Epston
Ground zero for narrative-therapy practice and thinking with stories.
- Trauma and Recovery — Judith Herman
The classic that maps individual trauma onto political harm.
- Emotion-Focused Therapy — Leslie Greenberg (selected texts)
For clinicians who work with emotions and attachment.
- It Didn’t Start With You — Mark Wolynn
On intergenerational patterns and how family narratives carry trauma.
Narrative, expressive & arts-based practice
- The Tree of Life Project (worksheets & handouts)
A narrative-informed group tool for identity & strengths.
- Writing & expressive-therapy guides
Collections and worksheets (Therapist Aid, PositivePsychology, CarePatron) for journalling, metaphor work and re-authoring.
Psychiatry, critique & systems
A history of psychiatry’s failures and how systemic practice shapes patient outcomes.
Critique shaped by intimate experience.
Feminism, queer theory & culture
- The Argonauts — Maggie Nelson
Hybrid memoir-essay on family, gender and intimacy.
- The Queer Art of Failure — Jack Halberstam
Reframes failure as political tactic and creative strategy.
- Emergent Strategy — adrienne maree brown
Organising, small experiments and movement wisdom.
- Yes Means Yes — Jaclyn Friedman & Jessica Valenti (eds.)
On consent, power and culture.
Caste literature & political memory
A Dalit feminist meditation blending memoir, abolitionist politics and healing tools.
- Annihilation of Caste — B. R. Ambedkar
The foundational political manifesto against caste hierarchy.
A family memoir that reads like history; fierce and intimate.
- Joothan — Omprakash Valmiki
A classic Dalit memoir mapping everyday humiliation and resistance.
- We Also Made History — Urmila Pawar & Meenakshi Moon
Oral histories of Dalit women in the Ambedkarite movement.
- Caste Matters — Suraj Yengde
A modern, incisive analysis of caste in contemporary life.
- When I Hid My Caste — Baburao Bagul
Landmark short fiction that loosened the ground for Dalit narrative voice.
Fiction & poetry that speak to mind & body
- Freshwater — Akwaeke Emezi
For radical re-imaginings of identity.
- The Bell Jar — Sylvia Plath
A life under pressure, rendered in luminous prose.
- Trigger Warning — Meghna Prakash
Poems about madness, memory, and survival.
For clinicians, teachers & group facilitators
- Maps of Narrative Practice / Narrative Means to Therapeutic Ends — White & Epston
Practical steps and handouts for narrative interventions.
- Emotionally Focused Therapy texts
For couples clinicians doing attachment repair.
- Care Work — Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha
For integrating disability justice into clinical practice.
How to use this list
- Read a memoir first if you want empathy and orientation; read a theory book when you want to translate experience into practice.
- Mix genres: pair a clinical text with a memoir (e.g. Trauma and Recovery with The Collected Schizophrenias) to balance theory and lived voice.
- For group work, choose two or three short essays or chapters and build reflective prompts; for school workshops, pick one accessible memoir and one practice handout.
- If something triggers you while reading — stop. Ground, breathe, and use the safety-plan worksheet in our resources before continuing.
- The list is always expanding — reach out any time for resource requests.
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